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3 HABITS THE STYLISH WOMAN SHOULD FORM IN 2022

WRITTEN BY SHARRA GREENE

 I hope you all have been having an amazing holiday season! A new year inspires many of us to form new habits. As we prepare to enter a new year with new style, here are a few habits I think would do us some good…

MIXING PRINTS

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This is one that so many women I know run from. But, in today’s world where many of us have access to the same exact trends and seasonal looks, I’ve found that the occasional mix of a print can allow for more personalization as we interpret trends through our own sense of style. If you’re nervous about this one, consider testing it out by going for prints in the same color palette, as seen above.

NURTURING YOUR HANDBAG COLLECTION

The evolution of the handbag in fashion culture has come a long way. The pressures of carrying a designer bag on your arm, day in and day out are long gone, with the prominence of DIY designers like Sonique SaturdayHouse of Rehab, & so many more.

I’m challenging us all to mix it up, and drop our worn out, all-purpose purse (we’ve all got one) for more unique and expressive options this year. You’ll be surprised at how much something as simple as a bag change can instantly elevate your entire look.

EMBRACING LUXURY

… & I’m not just talking about going buying a Birkin (but if you got it, do you!), or living above your means. This year I’m challenging myself to believe that not only do I deserve good things, but I deserve to attract all that is abundant, easy, and opulent. and that goes for love, business, family, friendships, and finances. I invite you to do the same. 

Stay tuned to the blog for more essential style advice as we enter a new year! P.S…. all my Style Source Members got this advice days ago! Don’t be sleeping! Join my Style Source for FREE style tips just like these sent to you weekly, before it hits the blog!

XO,

Sharra

“Empowering her evolution through style.”

THE MODERN HOTTIE'S CAPSULE WARDROBE: STAPLE PIECES TO HELP YOU CREATE ENDLESS FALL OUTFITS

CURATED BY SHARRA GREENE

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When’s the last time you updated your capsule wardrobe?? A capsule wardrobe is a small collection of clothing items that allow one to create several different outfits by mixing and matching the same pieces. Check out the key pieces tat can take the modern day fashionista a long way for the cooler weather…

THE CROPPED JACKET

I have plentyyyy in different flavors, and as much as bae makes fun of me for wearing half a jacket when it’s chilly out, cropped jackets are the perfect lightweight layer when you don’t need an entire coat and you want to edge up a casual look.

How to Style It: Pair it with your fave sweater dresses, or with a crop top and sweatpants or jeans. Complete the look with combat boots or your fave sneakers.

Where to Find It: Lionne Clothing, Mistress Rocks

THE THIGH HIGH BOOT

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If you know me, you know how I feel about my OTK’s!! When it gets cold out, they go everywhere that I go! (I have a whole blog post dedicated to them here! ) Every modern stylista needs a sexy pair of boots that contour and flatter their legs. I always keep at least one flat pair and one heeled pair in a classic color in my closet!

How to Style It: Go for an iconic Nanny Fran inspired look with a bodycon mini dress or a skirt & turtleneck combo, or keep it casual with body-hugging denim jeans and a statement jacket

Wear to Find It: Twelve AM, Simmi

THE LITTLE BROWN DRESS

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In case you haven’t heard, when it comes to classic colors, brown is the new black. You can catch every brand from major design houses to your everyday fast fashion boutique showcasing their line of staple pieces in shades of nude. When you’re after a sleek look that switches it up from the all-black-ensemble, opt for an earth toned brown dress in a classy silhouette that can take you from the desk to a date.

How to Style It: Pair it with a pair of metallic statement hoop earrings, an envelope clutch, nude or chocolate heels, and a smoky eye for maximum effect

Where to Find It: House of Chic LA, Naked Wardrobe

THE DENIM MINI SKIRT

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…because they’re back and they’re here to stay! A sexy denim mini is the epitome of “I’m trying, but not too hard.” It’s an easy piece to dress up or down with a simple shoe change, and it allows you to incorporate feminine and chic elements into your casual looks.

How to Style It: Pair it with your favorite crop top or bodysuit & a pair of boots. Simple yet effective

Where to Find It: Broken Land, Shop Nichole Lynel



THE ANKLE BOOT

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Can’t forget about a shorter length boot for the early Fall vibes! It’s always good to have boots in different lengths, heel heights, and materials to bring some variety into your wardrobe and enhance your options when the weather varies. What I love about the ankle boot is that you can wear it from early Fall, all throughout Winter, and even into early Spring. They’re a worthwhile investment.

How to Style It: Pair it with cargo pants or a hoodie dress when you’re after an edgy streetwear vibe. They can also go with denim shorts, your favorite jeans, or a sexy pair of leather pants

Where to Find It: Simmi, Twelve AM

THE LAIDBACK JOGGERS

Another essential part of your “effortless” collection, a pair of joggers with a relaxed fit will get you through those says where you couldn’t care less what you’re wearing, but you have to care because you have great impressions to make and goals to reach.

How to Style It: Take a page out of T. Ray’s book and dress it up with platform heels and a statement bag, or let your sneakerhead side show with an athletic shoe and a cropped jacket (See how the capsule wardrobe works together??) Follow T. Ray while you’re at it and check out my interview with her here!

Where to Find It: Fifth Sole Boutique, Meow and Barks Boutique

Which fall essentials do you have already and which ones do you need to stock up on?? Let me know in the comments!

Need help curating the perfect Fall/Winter wardrobe?? I can curate it for you. Contact me here to inquire about my personal and virtual styling services so we can execute amazing Autumn vibes together! New style content making its way to the blog very soon! Stay tuned!

-Sharra

“Empowering her evolution through her style.”

WHAT'S YOUR SIGNATURE STYLE? HERE'S HOW TO FIND IT

WRITTEN BY SHARRA GREENE

Back before I was styling full time when I was working at a makeup store, my boss came rushing up to me, yelling this as I stocked the shelves.

“What you mean?” I thought she had peeped that I wasn’t wearing one of the dusty uniform aprons because it took away from my outfit.

“Your style! It’s always some sort of boot, gold jewelry & accessories, and some type of stand-out texture!”

“I’ve been studying your page all weekend and I finally figured it out!”

**cues Mariah Carey’s “Obsessed” **

After I got over that last sentence of hers, (this is a true story btw) I actually felt flattered that she had taken notice of the signature look that I’ve built for myself over time. While many who are into fashion tend to shy away from consistent style habits, fearing that others will copy them or grow tired of how they dress, I’ve learned from the wise that the most influential women in the world almost always have a signature style that they’re known for… Here’s how to find yours.

WHAT COMMON THEMES ARE IN YOUR CLOSET?

I promise I’ve updated my phone since this selfie!

I promise I’ve updated my phone since this selfie!

If you were to raid my closet, you’d find a lot of thigh-high boots, v-neck tops, gold jewelry, and interesting textures. These are all pieces that make me feel my most confident & authentic self. Think of how Queen Bey almost always gives us Sasha Fierce on stage in a bodysuit, how Rihanna is always stepping on air with a sharp stiletto, or how it’s hard to spot Jlo without a bodycon piece. These women have all found that go-to style that gets them noticed and prepares them to step out into the world confidently.

Take a long hard look at your closet. What styles do you notice you tend to purchase often? You know why you probably do? Because something about that style flatters you, and makes you feel positively about yourself in one aspect or another. Rather than hopping from trend to trend, lean into the styles that help you feel your best as an individual, and then explore those specific styles or pieces in a different color, print, or texture variation.

Try shopping for different versions of your favorite piece, even if the difference is subtle. This is so key when it comes to curating a personal style that’s fashion-forward, yet timeless.

KNOW THE DIFFERENCE

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It’s also important to know the difference between what styles make you feel confident, and what styles simply keep you comfortable. There’s rarely ever much growth in a comfort zone. To discern this, observe your own posture when you wear something. Do you feel well hidden, well blended in with the crowd, and safely fitting into a norm? If the answer is yes, then that’s a style that’s holding you back.

To disrupt this, it’s time to explore pieces that you gravitate to, but may be fearful of pulling them off. Then, try different versions of that look that challenge you, without completely intimidating you…

Stepping out of your style comfort zone can be as simple as opting for a fit & flare dress if you’re tired of hiding your body but aren’t quite comfortable with a full on bodycon look… or trying a platform shoe if you’re new to the high heel life and want to elongate your figure.

These small changes can get you one big step closer to discovering an aesthetic that’s true to you, while also elevating how you show up for yourself.

NEED MORE HELP? I’M HERE FOR YOU!

Applying this technique in real time can often be a lot to take on. While some fashionistas have this skill set committed to memory, it can also be a game changer to have a second opinion or a guide to help you incorporate this style strategy into your day to day lifestyle. No worries, I’m here for you! If you’re after some strong and enduring guidance when it comes to nailing your signature style, reach out to me and let’s talk ways we can work together to elevate your look! Hit the button below to contact me.

More style content coming to the blog very soon! Stay tuned and make sure you’re subscribed so you never miss a post!

XOXO,

Sharra

“Empowering her evolution through style.”

TO HAUL OR NOT TO HAUL? HOW TO KNOW WHEN IT'S TIME FOR A SHOPPING SPREE (& WHEN IT'S NOT)

TO HAUL OR NOT TO HAUL? HOW TO KNOW WHEN IT'S TIME FOR A SHOPPING SPREE (& WHEN IT'S NOT)

To haul or not to haul, that is the question. When you’re an avid lover of retail therapy, it can be hard to discern whether or not you truly need whatever you have the urge to shop for. The lines have become even more blurred as we’re constantly being fed content from all angles that seem to show us exactly what we need, exactly when we need it…(not suspicious at all…) I’m here with a few do’s & don’t’s that can help you make wiser shopping choices while still having more than enough looks to slay in…

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